Great video Sam. I think many people assume that one is as good as the other or that they intertwine. I see them as two seperate acts. I am at the point where I feel that I have forgiven my spouse and have started to talk about reconciliation. I'm finding myself at a distance and want to feel safer about coming closer. It's been a whirlwind of a year and we are both still healing. We both want to reconcile, but I think we have differences about what that entails. For now, patience and empathy carry us forward. Thank you for all the insights you've shared.