Affair Recovery

Samuel shares a poignant but delicate topic on how the betrayed spouse can sometimes bully their unfaithful spouse.

Samuel answers a pivotal question today: When is the best time to work on your marriage?

Lynn never planned on being the girl you thought of when you found out about a porn problem, but she is. And surprisingly, she's glad she can be that girl for those who are reeling from the knowledge of their spouse's use of porn. Here's what she would say to you if you just found out. Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for woman dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

Samuel shares insight on faulty approaches to recovery from infidelity.

Today Samuel shares insight from EMS Weekend as well as his own story about great suffering in recovery from infidelity.

Today Samuel shares a poignant word picture of what recovery looks like and how healing is found in recovery from infidelity.

Today Samuel shares another story of a conversation he had with conference attendees about what it means to actually get back up as a betrayed spouse after infidelity.

Today Samuel shares thoughts for the unfaithful on facing yourself and pursuing recovery after infidelity.

Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal was born from my personal journals and homework from participating in Affair Recovery courses and private therapy. 10 years ago I couldn't imagine this being an outcome of my pain but now I'm thankful that I'm able to provide hope to others in the darkness. 

Lynn is the author of Keep Walking, 40 Days to Hope and Freedom after Betrayal, a devotional for women dealing with the trauma and heartache of betrayal.

Today Samuel answers one of the most asked questions from betrayed spouses about regaining confidence after infidelity.

Samuel shares insight in today's video into handling struggles with D-Day anniversaries with remembering the day the affairs came out.

Samuel shares an EMS Weekend principle about how to help your betrayed spouse feel safer after infidelity.

Samuel shares helpful tips in today's video for how to handle disclosure of infidelity. When dealing with the disclosure process, it's vital to use this exercise form the EMS Weekend.

In my last blog post I wrote about how betrayal has roots that run deep in my family. My parents and their four children have all experienced being either the betrayed or the unfaithful in our marriages. Some have experienced both.

I mentioned that my brother’s wife has betrayed him multiple times. He had a revenge affair after one of these episodes. My brother places part of the blame for his wife’s infidelity on her chaotic and dysfunctional upbringing. But what’s so incredibly sad about my brother is that he also blames himself for his wife’s actions. She wouldn’t have been compelled to stray if only he had been a better...