Affair Recovery

Samuel discusses why many mistakes are made in the attempt to heal from infidelity or addiction.

Samuel tackles a tough but needed conversation about when to actually get help after infidelity.

"You have to trust the process."

I've heard this mantra of sorts from many research-based and well-respected betrayal recovery sources. It is the very backbone and lifeblood of expert help such as what is offered through Affair Recovery's Programs and Courses. It is so hard to do when your heart is shattered into a million fragmented pieces, and all you want, all you need, is to escape the horrendous pain. A pain like no other.

There are many necessary elements of successful recovery. Just as there are many...

Samuel interviews a betrayed male spouse who shares his journey of overcoming denial and comparison.

Samuel answers a question many betrayed spouse have asked themselves regarding the future of their relationship after infidelity is discovered.

When couples face ambivalence in either spouse it can seem like the end, when in fact, it can be positive for the relationship.

I recently made this family favorite. The first two batches came out perfectly. On the third and final batch, the kitchen timer did not go off. I use this timer for all sorts of cooking and baking projects. It is the type where you rotate the dial past the time you want and turn back to the exact number of minutes desired. It ticks like a time bomb and rings as a school...

Samuel answers a viewer question about whether or not a spouse can really change after infidelity.

Samuel shares a powerful and effective tool for individuals on both sides of infidelity to heal.

Samuel shares important key principles to repair the lens a betrayed spouse sees their unfaithful partner through.

Samuel discusses how to navigate trauma in light of recent world events.

What do the words 'I'm sorry' really mean? They are used so frequently that they don't seem to carry much weight. If you are like me, however, they are the first thing we mutter when we realize we have made a mistake or done something wrong. When it comes to the pain of infidelity, the words 'I'm sorry' have to feel downright insulting to a betrayed spouse. As they should, because it isn't enough. The truth of the matter is, it will never be enough to...

Samuel helps the betrayed spouse understand if an unfaithful spouse is genuinely sorry or just sorry they got caught.

Samuel shares insight behind the need to choose your spouse.