All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? 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Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? 1/28/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild? 1/25/2021 Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public? 1/25/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship? 1/20/2021 Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence? 1/20/2021 Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me? 1/20/2021 Q&A Are My Husband and I Trying to Do the Impossible? 1/20/2021 Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids? 1/20/2021 Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconcile with My Husband and Be Close to My Sisters? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A What Type of Affair Does This Qualify As? 1/14/2021 Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men? 1/14/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair? 1/14/2021 Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Is It Possible to Delude Oneself into Believing an Affair Wasn’t Emotional as a Means of Self Protection? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Q&A Should Sex Addicts Completely Stay Away from Sex, Including Healthy Sex with Their Wives, to Recover? 1/14/2021 Q&A Shouldn’t We Be a Little Better by Now? 1/14/2021 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is the Roller Coaster of Emotions Normal? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Help Our Adult and Teenage Children? 12/17/2020 Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is There Any Chance of a Future for Us Building a New Life Together? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with past Trauma? 12/17/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »