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Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Have You Seen Polyamorous Couples Come through the Program? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020
Video Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other? 12/09/2020
Video Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome? 12/09/2020
Text The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020
Video Q&A What is Objectification? 12/01/2020
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible? 12/01/2020
Video Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020
Video Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020
Text Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020

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