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Video Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020
Text Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020
Video Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020
Video Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Was it Really Love? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should We Tell Our Kids about the Infidelity? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/05/2020
Video Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More? 10/05/2020

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