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Video Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery? 9/24/2020
Video Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020
Video Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020
Video Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse? 9/22/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020
Video Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Recover from My Anger Resulting from an Unhealthy Recovery Process? 9/10/2020
Video Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage? 9/10/2020
Video Q&A Why Isn't There Acknowledgement That Infidelity Is a Form of Abuse? 9/10/2020
Video Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Get past Him Having Sex with Another Person? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020
Video Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now? 8/27/2020
Video Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020

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