All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Does an Emotional Affair Affect Your Sex Life? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders? 7/09/2020 Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Remain Positive about Moving Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Are Some Exercises We Could Use to Help Us Let Go and Move Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could Overwhelming Sadness Be Anger in Disguise? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again? 6/19/2020 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is This Too Much to Overcome? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend? 6/19/2020 Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425…next ›last »