All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage? 6/09/2020 Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Exactly Does One Transform the Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Helps the Wayward Spouse Transition from Shame to Empathy? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Processing Grief and Self-Pity? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Grief? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Start Fresh in the Midst of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Recover in a Situation like This? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me during This Season of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020 Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Long Do Couples Stay in a State of Ambivalence? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Hope Is There to Restoring a Marriage That Has Been a Lie from the Beginning? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This Normal Affair Behavior or a Sexual Addiction? 6/03/2020 Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last? 6/03/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Flooding When I Feel My Own Emotions Are Overwhelming? 5/28/2020 Q&A Are Intrusive Suicidal Thoughts Common? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526…next ›last »
