All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 4912 Resources Type Title Posted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 Q&A What Keeps an Emotional Affair from Becoming Sexual? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum? 11/22/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children? 11/22/2019 Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Elaborate on ‘Affairing Down’? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back? 11/22/2019 Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Ever Get Those Holidays, That Used to Be Our Holidays, Back? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage? 11/22/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Is My Husband Serious about His Personal Recovery? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate? 11/14/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This? 11/14/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Restore Intimacy after an Affair? 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…232425262728293031…next ›last »
