All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022 Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? 5/24/2022 Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery? 5/24/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior? 5/24/2022 Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022 Tony & Debbie Mentor Video 5/01/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022 Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard? 4/06/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »
