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Video icon Facing the Fear of Intimacy After an Affair with Jay Stringer 11/09/2026
Video icon Will They Cheat Again? Facing the Fear of Relapse After Infidelity 10/26/2026
Video icon Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall 10/19/2026
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Video icon Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum? 11/02/2026
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Video icon Part of Me Wants to Stay. Part of Me Wants to Leave. Why? 7/06/2026
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Video icon Q&A Is It Common For Sex Addicts To Say They Cannot Be Intimate With Their Spouses? 6/22/2026
Video icon Q&A Is It Helpful to Make Amends with The Affair Partner's Family? 6/22/2026
Video icon Q&A Why Did They Allow the Abuse to Continue? 6/22/2026
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue to Own My Actions Without Accepting Unhealthy Actions From the Betrayed? 6/22/2026
Video icon Q&A How Can One Tell Whether Their Spouse Loves Them or Just Wants Someone They Trust They Can Come To? 6/22/2026
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure When The Affair Partner Is A Close Friend? 6/22/2026
Video icon Trauma or Emotional Abuse? Gaslighting, Narcissism, and Lack of Empathy with Dr. Hawkins 6/22/2026
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Video icon Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 5/27/2026
Video icon Therapy, Groups, and Intensives: What Actually Works After an Affair? 5/25/2026
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When They Claim They Don't Remember What They Did During Their Affair? 5/20/2026
Video icon The Hidden Cause of Affairs and Finding Answers with Jay Stringer 5/20/2026
Text icon Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 5/13/2026
Video icon Trauma, Trickle-Truth & Trust: Top Barriers to Recovery 5/11/2026
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Feel Affair Recovery Content Is All for the Betrayed? 5/06/2026
Video icon Q&A When is EMDR Necessary? 5/06/2026
Video icon Q&A Are These Signs That My Church is Siding with The Affair Partner? 5/06/2026
Video icon Q&A How Do I See the Wayward as a Good Person Who Made a Serious Mistake? 5/06/2026
Video icon Q&A Has Anyone Rebuilt a Healthy, Safe, Marriage After Something This Complex? 5/06/2026
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Video icon The Workplace Affair: Why the Office is the #1 Place for Infidelity 4/22/2026
Video icon Q&A Where Can I Find Community During Recovery? 4/15/2026
Video icon Q&A How Will She Ever Know Why She Really Had the Affair? 4/15/2026
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband Really Have to 'Get It' to Be Safe For My Own Healing? 4/15/2026
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Video icon Is it Narcissism? Explaining Your Spouse's Behavior 4/08/2026
Video icon Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Prolonged Intrusive Thoughts? 4/01/2026
Video icon Q&A What Affair Type Category Does an Entire Second Identity Fall Under? 4/01/2026
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Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal? 4/01/2026
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity? 4/01/2026
Text icon The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 4/01/2026
Video icon Is My Spouse Being Honest? Truth, Lies & Polygraphs 3/30/2026
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse? 3/25/2026
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help the Betrayed Overcome Comparison With the Affair Partner? 3/25/2026
Video icon Q&A Will Finding Alternative Ways to Meet Needs for Connection Reduce My Perceived 'Need' for Sex? 3/25/2026
Text icon Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 3/18/2026
Video icon The #1 Question: WHY Did the Affair Happen? 3/16/2026
Video icon Is Childhood Trauma Affecting Your Recovery After an Affair? 3/11/2026
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Video icon Q&A Why Isn't More Time Spent Discovering Why They Had an Affair? 3/10/2026
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