Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025
Will I Ever Feel Chosen? 7/02/2025
Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses 6/25/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively? 6/18/2025
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me? 6/18/2025
Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets 6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose? 6/12/2025
Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go? 6/12/2025
The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey) 6/11/2025
The Number One Question and How to Answer It 6/04/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner? 5/28/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles? 5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025
Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change? 5/28/2025
The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma 5/28/2025
Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair 5/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025
How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?” 5/14/2025
Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair 5/07/2025
Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025
Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs? 5/06/2025
Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding 4/30/2025
Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel? 4/23/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner? 4/23/2025
Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety 4/23/2025
Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025
Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025
The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025
Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair? 4/09/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025
Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves? 4/09/2025
The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025
Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025
Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025
Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth? 4/01/2025
Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025
Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'? 3/26/2025
