We're in week 5. We were 7 months after the initial discovery day when the course started. I worry that the damage caused prior to the start of EMSO is too great because I, the betrayed, have zero tolerance for continued self-centeredness, stonewalling and failure to empathize from my spouse. I never truly made him move out and It seems that those who were faced with that reality show more appreciation for their spouses and the second chance they've been given. I'm so far beyond the end of my rope that it's hard to walk away from the whole mess.