We just finished week 7 and I feel my mate is still defensive and doesn't get it, what can I do with my discouragement and how do I respond?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 09/30/2011 - 11:40

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We just finished week 7 and I feel my mate is still defensive and doesn't get it, what can I do with my discouragement and how do I respond?
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