Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 294 Resources Type Title Posted The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 4/16/2025 The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage 4/09/2025 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 4/02/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 3/19/2025 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025 Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Recovery Tips to Face the New Year 1/01/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024 Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 10/23/2024 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/04/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024 The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024 What Works in Healing Infidelity? 7/10/2024 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024 Is Forgiveness Really Possible? 6/26/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Really Hard Times Will Not Last 6/12/2024 2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process 6/05/2024 Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024 Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024 Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024 Pages123456next ›last »