Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 293 Resources Type Title Posted Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair 2/12/2025 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Destructive Patterns in Communication 1/15/2025 Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity 1/08/2025 Recovery Tips to Face the New Year 1/01/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024 Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 10/23/2024 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/04/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024 The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024 What Works in Healing Infidelity? 7/10/2024 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 7/03/2024 Is Forgiveness Really Possible? 6/26/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Really Hard Times Will Not Last 6/12/2024 2 Things You Must Understand About the Disclosure Process 6/05/2024 Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/29/2024 Betrayal Trauma: Tips for Talking with Your Spouse 5/22/2024 A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity 5/15/2024 Signs There Could Be Abusive Behaviors in Your Relationship 5/08/2024 Creating Healing Spaces 5/01/2024 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024 The Affair Causing Habit 4/17/2024 Lessons Learned After Infidelity 4/10/2024 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 4/03/2024 The Truth About Lying 3/27/2024 Psychological Abuse Within Infidelity 3/20/2024 Regulating Our Stress Response During Recovery 3/13/2024 How to Survive Infidelity 3/06/2024 Pages123456next ›last »
