How do I deal with intrusive thoughts when I'm trying to make love to my mate? I keep comaring myself to the other woman and thinking about what they did

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Mon, 12/05/2011 - 19:37

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How do I deal with intrusive thoughts when I'm trying to make love to my mate? I keep comaring myself to the other woman and thinking about what they did
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