Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Do you believe a person can truly reconnect if they are still holding back parts of the story? She says that I have the whole story. My wife crossed many lines in her betrayal, when we do talk about the affair's she tends to down play or minimize things I ask about, some of what she has told me either doesn't make sense or seems to be missing parts and a lot of i don't remember . Also, she shows some defensiveness and some anger when I…