He has given me all of his passwords, he talks about the affair...sometimes, he ended the affair before I found out about it, he had already established no contact before I found out about the affair, but he doesn't seem to want to do anything to work on our marriage. He just wants to go along in life as if it never happened. I have sent him links to articles for him to read, but he has not read any of them. How can I show him that it is imperative for him to prove himself to be a safe partner if he refuses to do any work?