Three months ago I discovered that my husband was calling and texting female coworker for year and nine months. I questioned him twice when I felt him pulling away. He told me that I’m imaging things due to being cooped up with covid. I found proof and confronted him. Of course said they are just friends but were texting around the clock towards the end. I suggested that if they are only friends, the three of us should have meeting. He refused, saying he wants nothing to do with her and won’t do it no matter consequences. We are both in counseling and he says his counselor never heard of an emotional affair. We have had several discussions but things are not adding up. How do I get to the truth?