I’m really struggling with sex my wife engaged in with the affair partner compared to the lies. I struggle with wonder if my wife is comparing me sexually to the affair partner. Is it possible that she didn’t like sex with the affair partner? This is hard for me to imagine because she called the affair partner yummy. We have attended EMS Weekend and she is in Hope for Healing. My wife has told me it wasn’t about the sex but she did it often with him and in places she hasn’t with me. All this is so hard for me. I feel so emasculated. I want to know if I please my wife sexually more than the affair partner and that she isn’t comparing me one way or the other.