Q&A How Do I Handle My Thoughts and Questions?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie 6 years ago

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I’m really struggling with sex my wife engaged in with the affair partner compared to the lies. I struggle with wonder if my wife is comparing me sexually to the affair partner. Is it possible that she didn’t like sex with the affair partner? This is hard for me to imagine because she called the affair partner yummy. We have attended EMS Weekend and she is in Hope for Healing. My wife has told me it wasn’t about the sex but she did it often with him and in places she hasn’t with me. All this is so hard for me. I feel so emasculated. I want to know if I please my wife sexually more than the affair partner and that she isn’t comparing me one way or the other.

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Wow wow wow, wish I would have watched this weeks or months ago. This was my break through on my intrusive thoughts. The AP was just an object she got emotional feedback from. She only have intercourse cause she was afraid of losing what she was getting from him cause talking wasn't working anymore. Wow wow wow. Thank you guys for this video so so so so much!