Q&A Should I Expose Them? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Leslie and John combined the following three questions for their answer: My husband is a Senior Pastor and the person I discovered he cheats with is the church finance director. She still works at the church with both my husband and I and I suspect they are still cheating. He is convinced that the finance director is my friend and is/has helped me to save my marriage. I have endured this since October 2015. My heart hurts daily goin…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Breaking Off The AffairEmotional RegulationHandling DiscoveryRecovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoverySeparation and DivorceRL_Media Type: Audio