Is it me, the betrayed asking all the questions? Or is it the unfaithful coming forward and disclosing information on their own? My husband and I are stuck. He is frustrated and thinks I have the "gist" of what has happened and I am frustrated because I still have questions. Over 90% of what I know about his affair's has come from either me discovering it or me thinking of the question to ask him and I do do the 24 hour rule. I have gotten a lot of "I don't know" answers and have had a lot of lies told to me that I later found out the truth. Again, not because he told me the truth at first but because I didn't think something sounded right and I found out the truth and then questioned him on it. I want full disclosure and I do know that is not getting every single detail of everything but I want more than just the "gist" of what happened. But sometimes I feel so confused I don't even know what this "full disclosure" is.