My husband and I live in different countries, and it is not possible for either of us to travel to the other. We have only been together in the 12 days of my last visit. That was also the first 12 days after D-Day. I kind of feel like I can't connect with him, and feel like I am detaching from him. I don't know if it is possible to do recovery work while being apart like this? Of course there is also our individual ways of dealing with things that is making it difficult, and my husband, who is the wayward spouse, has just started really doing work to fix things, 5 months from D-Day. Do you have any experience with what can be done while being apart?