Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: It seems like my husband, even after EMS weekend, is focused on what I am doing wrong in the marriage and how much I am not healing or being loving to him. He keeps threatening to leave, but won't. Three + affairs later, he says angrily, "I can't do this anymore. I'm done. I'm leaving. I can tell it's what YOU want." Why would he do this after already inflicting so much pain?Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryRecovering AloneSafety in RecoverySeparation and DivorceRL_Media Type: Video