Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Mon, 10/24/2016 - 13:52

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It seems like my husband, even after EMS weekend, is focused on what I am doing wrong in the marriage and how much I am not healing or being loving to him. He keeps threatening to leave, but won't. Three + affairs later, he says angrily, "I can't do this anymore. I'm done. I'm leaving. I can tell it's what YOU want." Why would he do this after already inflicting so much pain?

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