Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Dday was January 25th, 2015. It has almost been a year of me trying very hard to make things work with my husband after finding out he was having two long term affairs at the same time. During this past year we have seen 4 counselors (only a few times with each one) because my husband never liked any of them or thought they had anything valuable to say. I disagree. During the past year he put forth a little effort here and there but o…