Q&A How do I Get Past All the Things he Did? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hi Leslie and John, My husband is a sex addict - all of our 36 year marriage he has been acting out with prostitutes, using porn and masturbation. I have had EMDR to help with the trauma, and it has helped quite a bit, however, I am having a horrible time getting past all the sex he did for all of those years. I do understand that he was living 2 lives and how he compartmentalized the sex with the prostitutes and married sex, but I ST…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationIntrusive ThoughtsTrauma of InfidelityRL_Media Type: Audio