Could you please give me some insight on what type of therapy is best for childhood abandonment issues, emotional abuse, being a betrayed spouse from both online chat and porn use and also a several year emotional affair? I'm tired of going to therapy and talking about it all and never feeling any better. My spouse and I are in EMS Online, and plan to sign up for both individual courses. I feel I need something that helps me to make this all a distant memory so I can let it all go and move on to happier times.