Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 12/16/2016 - 15:34

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Rick During our progression through the 20 empathy lists many of our group got very mean and I'm sure many unfaithfuls felt 'unsafe'. I know you specifically asked us to make the lists from a place of compassion. Our group just felt like retaliation and shaming. I'm not sure we got much out of the meeting. Am I way off track here or did we miss the point of the exercise?

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