Q&A Do I Have to Know About it?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Tue, 01/05/2016 - 14:52

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Question: 

My husband had what I would consider a limerant affair. He tells me it never got physical but he has lied so much that I am not sure I can believe him. The thing is that I am not sure I want to know. I feel like we are both committed to trying to work past this and heal our marriage and if I found out it went to that point I am not sure I could handle that added betrayal. Is it wrong for me to tell him that if he did sleep with her that I don't ever want to know about it?

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