Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade?
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Question
My wife and I are 1 month post EMS weekend. She was still with her AP at that time. Once we returned home, I truly believe she did stop communicatng with the AP within the week but became more angry and resentful. It's been so much more of an emotional roller coaster since then and she has basically given up on post EMS work claiming "we're just spinning our wheels." It's extremely frustrating knowing the abundance of resources we have available and what I feel is a lack of empathy. I know that the AP is back in the picture again and she is talking of divorce. I know this is just limerance and there is very little chance of their relationship surviving. Do I just wait it out? I want us to continue our recovery work together but I do not want to push her away by constantly bring it up.
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