Hi Rick. We are 7 months past D-Day and currently in an EMSO group. Last week we needed to get to ground zero. After a few conversations with my husband, the unfaithful, he told me that since he cut off all contact with the AP when their affair was discovered that the only time he thinks of her is when I begin to ask and try to understand what happened. My question is since his affair was both emotional and physical that lasted 4 months, is it true that he only thinks of her when we are discussing what happened? Is that even possible? And he says that when he does think of her he feels angry for being a fool.