Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 05/23/2018 - 13:10

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As the betrayed, it is so disheartening to see forward progress with my husband only to have him say “what I did was wrong BUT it’s not as bad as ...”. How can his slipping into justification mode not send me back to darker days? Doesn’t that show me that he doesn’t get it?

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