Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 01/23/2019 - 11:13

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For a while now, as the betrayed, I have felt like I had to be the stable person in the relationship. Any time I have tried to speak about my struggle it results in my husband feeling bad about himself. How do I step out of this thinking and not feel threatened?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas