Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I know we’re not supposed be compare ourselves to the mistress, and most spouse’s affair down, but mine didn’t. How do I deal with it when he affaired up? Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video