I am the wayward spouse, currently at week 13 in Hope for Healing, and just started EMS Online. I was sharing my story with my wife and she wanted me to amend part of it to include an emotional relationship she thought I was engaged in. I understand how much I have hurt her and crushed her spirit from my infidelity and currently there is no trust. We have had several D-Days. The first one being 30 years ago and the most recent information has been the last few months. I told her I couldn't lie or make up something that wasn't true but I think she just thought I was being defensive or lying again. She described it in her story but I didn't say anything.