Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I've been reading a lot about pimping tenderness and grooming behavior. As the betrayer it's something I recognize I've done in my life. I can see through counseling that it is something that my father did a lot as well. Is this a learned behavior or genetic? Is it an addiction? And how exactly do I go about eradicating it from my life?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFor the Unfaithful SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video