Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?

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We are about 6 months out from our second d-day when my husband listed out everything he has done in the past 5 years of our marriage. He has had sex with numerous women, each progressively getting riskier and risker. He is a sex addict. I appreciate that he took the time to disclose the information to me, and I pushed him to do it. Back at that time, he answered all my questions willingly, but was very vague on timelines, dates, etc. Ever since then he won’t revisit the topic and doesn’t want me to ask any more questions. He feels as though the questions need to stop in order for us to move on. I don’t feel like our disclosure chapter is complete though. How do I tell him that I need to talk about it more, especially the timeline piece, in order to move on?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas