Q&A How Do You Know If You Are Grieving or If You Are Wallowing? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband and I had D-Day 3 months ago. Since then, my husband will have long periods of time when he is down, discouraged, negative, troubled etc. This time can last from 18 hours to a week long surge of constant pain and hurt. I have been attentive and supportive and loving. He and I have talked about constructive grieving and when do you know when you have crossed that line into wallowing in pain?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video