Q&A How Long Do We Keep Talking and Reading about the Affair? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My wife had an affair 23 months ago. We went to an EMS weekend 18 months after D-Day and it helped tremendously. We are getting through it and believe we will make it. Although, I do still have triggers and think about it daily still. I still listen to podcasts/your videos regularly and I am on the affair recovery message boards daily. It just feels like it has taken over my life. When is the right time to back off all the input?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryStrengthening MarriageRL_Media Type: Video