After completing EMS Online and 9 months of Christian Counseling...we have reconciled our marriage and even renewed our wedding vows a couple months ago. Here’s the problem. Weeks will go by and out of the blue something will occur and boom— a trigger slaps me in the head. Those feelings of hurt, disbelief, anger, pain, etc comes over me like a whirlwind. Is this normal ? I always tell my husband when this happens and yet he doesn’t seem to be compassionate towards my hurt and seems to be irritated with it all. How long will this continue ... these triggers? After all this time, why is this still happening ? What suggestions do you have for us to work more effectively through these “triggers”? They are occurring less frequently but when they do .... it isn’t good at all.