Why would my husband send a calendar invite to the ap months before to celebrate their "anniversary". He has indicated that he was never in love and never thought about leaving us. Why would he do that if the intentions were never to leave us, why he would plan an anniversary with her months ahead?? like he knew it was going to last or he wanted that or what is it?? I can not wrap my head around this. Please help me understand. Because every time I think about this I get sick to my stomach.