Hi Rick, I caught my spouse cheating a month and a half ago. From my understanding the affair has been going on since March. However, he has provided very little details. I am currently pregnant with our first child, which we planned. He has moved out and has chosen a relationship with his affair partner. At first he seemed confused and wanted both, however since he is not willing to stop the affair relationship I do not feel he is safe we currently have very minimal contact. He is unwilling to stop the affair to do recovery work. Is it time to call it quits and give up. Will he ever wake up from his affair fantasy or is it real "love". He is losing all his family in this process I just don't get it?