Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 07/12/2017 - 11:36

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Question: 

I am the Hurt Spouse and I know the Affair Partner. The last few months I've wanted to confront her or send her a letter. She doesn't know that I know about this 3 year affair she had with my husband We are 22 months put from D-Day. . My intent is not to be revengeful or hurtful but to let her know that I know about the whole story and actually I want to tell her I forgive her. Is that okay?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas