My husband had multiple one night stands throughout our entire marriage and one affair that lasted just shy of a year. The affairs started before marriage and I didn’t find until 2 years into our marriage. He withdraws and doesn’t talk. The last big D-Day was a year ago although I found him on dating websites as recent as December. We were separated for 8 months and decided to try to reconcile 4 months ago. There is still a lot of justifying on his end for making bad decisions. He doesn’t think he is as bad as the other cheaters. He doesn’t open up to me at all and quite frankly I’ve lost all hope for the marriage. I find the withdrawal without a word very manipulative. In turn I flood and the cycle continues. I’m now trying to avoid flooding but we just aren’t talking anymore. Is it time to bite the bullet and end the marriage? We are doing EMS Online but he’s just going through the motions and nothing seems genuine. I think we are two steps ahead and one back only to realize we are one step ahead and 2 back.