We have been married for 11 years. We have completed EMS Online, yet my husband never took it seriously due to his continuing affair. His affair is 20 months and going strong. He bought her a phone and Apple Watch to keep in contact with her while with me and travels with her doing dog shows every single weekend. He swears it’s just emotional, yet I have found out that they stay in hotels together. I have listened to all of Samuel's blogs about what to do when the unfaithful refuses to end his affair, and have done everything I know to do. Even his family knows I have done my part in trying to heal this marriage. He has no desire to be safe. It’s very hard to end the relationship because of two young children and me being a stay at home mom. Is there anything else left to do? Or is it too far gone and I need to move on and file for divorce? Do I watch from a distance as his life unravels?