My wife and I attend a church we really enjoy and have been a part of for a few years. Unfortunately, the AP was a sporadic attendee of our church and was my wife's former boss. She no longer works with him and has cut all communication off as well. After D-day I cussed him out over the phone, tried to find him at his work and even arranged to fight him (to which he did not show). I personally really doubt he would ever attend our church again but we both have no real way of knowing because we haven't communicated with him. My question is should we find a different church or assume he will never go back to this one? I also don't want my wife wondering every time we attend church is he going to be there? I also don't like the feeling of what will I do if I see him either.