My husband and I recently started the EMS Online course and it’s going really well. We just have one problem that’s hindering my healing and that’s not knowing whether my husband’s affair partner is pregnant or not. It has been a little over a month since their last hookup and unprotected sex with no regard to the possibility of pregnancy occurred. Things are moving smoothly between my husband and I but not knowing her pregnancy status is a very dark cloud over me and it really affects my ability and even desire to properly move on. We are aware of the no contact clause during EMS Online, so, my question is, should my husband contact his affair partner to get an answer regarding her pregnancy status? And if not, how do you suggest I cope during this uncertain time?