Q&A Should We Divorce Because We Can't Respect Each Other's Feelings? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I saw your video regarding intrusive thoughts and how I can share them with my spouse. I just recently shared intrusive thoughts (reluctantly) with my spouse because he kept pushing me to tell him. I do not think I said it in a manner that was aggressive, however I DO believe his shame took over and therefore he lashed out at me asking me why do I ask those questions, they do not serve any purpose for "our future". I tried to explain that I don't ask about 90% of the questions I have regarding intrusive thoughts. We argued. Does this mean we should just get a divorce if we cannot seem to respect each others feelings? I don't see us ever agreeing on our feelings. He's dealing with one thing and I'm dealing with another. Rick's suggested resources: Not Just Friends by Shirley P. Glass After the Affair by Janis A. Spring Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryRecovering AloneRecovery FundamentalsSeparation and DivorceThe Role of EmpathyRL_Media Type: Video
