Q&A Should We Spend the Holidays Together? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: If your spouse isn't safe because they are still struggling to cut off the affair partner contact, is it unreasonable to decide not to spend holidays together as a family until they are safe or is that then looked at as punishment and a form of control? Isn't it logical to say that a consequence of maintaining contact is the loss of privilege for those family events?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Healthy HolidaysQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video